My eldest is 14 and he wants everything. He was the only child till he was 10 so he was really spoilt, mainly by my parents as I had no money so they would spend hundreds on him at xmas.
This year he keeps asking for a laptop!!!! He isn't getting one but I don't think he believes me. I keep telling him that we don't have that sort of money but he seems to not listen.
The other 2 are on 1 and 4 so they don't expect loads and the 4 year old is just happy that everyone comes to visit.
I have to admit that for the past 2 years I have splurged but we bought a house this year and just don't have the money.