Originally Posted by RachaelP  You didn't mention how much control you had over your son's birth. Both my births were natural and straightforward, it's just that the midwife at the first was telling me what to do and the second time the midwife was asking me i.e. giving me responsibility. How was it with your son? |
i had an emergency section on my daughter after having 10 hours labour and only getting to 6 cms then her heart beat was dropping i had to stay in hospital for 6 days after her
on my son i was supposed to have a community midwife but non were available 4 me it was straightforward enough in slow labour all day then had him the followin morn at 9 but i felt that the "bonding" stage i struggled with the first 2 weeks i couldnt even c visitors im fine now though 2 yrs on !!!!!!