Unsure if this is in the right thread but it is language I used in labour with a woman: I remember as a first year student doing a VE and the cx was posterior and the head was very high.

I said to my midwife who was on the bed as well directing me to stretch my fingers so I stupidly said out loud "But my whole arm is up there!". My midwife whispered "shhh, outside now"

I got bad feedback from that midwife and reflecting back on it now, yeah it was so stoooopid but come on I was first yea and was only just learning labour lingo.

lol

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