You see it alot, you really want them to breastfeed but at the end of the day its a viscious circle isn't it? I have to be realistic when I'm discussing breastfeeding with them, but how can I tell a woman, that her child may end up more intellectual than its siblings if its breastfed?, It will have noo allergies and get out of the deprivation cycle, TBH I'm just happy if they're happy, then its all good, maybe I should have more of a pro approach which in some respects I do, but....