Hi. I'm new here. Just subscribed to this forum today.

I see that this thread has been going a while, but thought I would add my thoughts.

I first qualified as a midwife in 1992. Had a career break when my children were young and did the Return to Practice in 2004.

I liken qualifying as a midwife to passing your driving test. When you're a learner you feel confident in your driving, as you prepare for the test. During this time you've always got another driver sitting by the side of you. But, once you've passed your test, that's it..... you can go solo and your driving is all your responsibility and it's all on your licence!

When I first passed my driving test I felt so nervous, going out on my own. I regularly swore behind the wheel of the car (I never normally swear!). I was just so scared! Agghhhhh! But, gradually I became more confident and I calmed down. Jumping in the car became like second nature.

And so it has been with midwifery. The first few months/years were very scary. I felt quite unsure of myself, inspite of being well prepared for the role during my training. But, this said, I don't think it is good for a NQ to be over confident. A bit of nerves are a good thing. - That's what keeps you on your toes!

Now, I feel like I am driving in the fast lane of the motorway, keeping up with the rest of them!