Originally Posted by LotusEater  I don't think luck is the primary factor here, it's got to do with tuning in to the woman and honing your other senses and skills. It's only when you have not got the ability to VE (in this case) regularly that there will be incentive to develop other ways of knowing. |
Thanks LE, you make a very good point. Half the time we are so preoccupied with diagrams in our minds to correspond with what we are feeling that we miss the other ways of knowing...