Oh, that man's wife is going to desperately need help and support. No doubt about that. Could you imagine finding that out about your husband? All the children he'd hurt and quite possibly your own? To have all that come down on you in (probably) one day would just be disastrous to me. I don't see how she's holding up, to be honest.

I really think that this person should rally around the wife. Perhaps get the group together gradually for healing and support. But I imagine the wife is probably feeling like an outcast, so if this person can openly show support to this wife, it can pave the way for others to accept that she had nothing to do with it.

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Sasha, Doula, Mama, Wife, Student Midwife

Three little wild boys and one soldier husband