Sooz you are one helluva woman getting through this. Im glad it helped to get it out here, our staff forum is full of things like this theres summat about here that makes you talk... and feel better.

I was just saying on another thread how I hate it when adults behave like that, making your dad choose, whats the point? all it does is devestate you and will make him resent her for it in years to come if not already. You are here, you didnt ask to be born and they have to be the grown ups and deal with it, its not fair on you or the rest of the family to do so otherwise. Let me at that woman!!

Sounds like your birth mum has some issues of her own to deal with too.

I salute you super lady, you are an inspiration to many xx

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