Thanks TallPoppy,
It was amazing, and I am still buzzing from it lol.
I don't feel I did anything special, I just reassured her the way I would want someone to reassure me, I am just pleased I was able to help and make her feel able to listen to her 'inner self'
I feel truly privilaged to have been able to share such a humbling experience with such a lovely couple.
Oh, and typing after a glass and a hlaf of wine isn't easy lol.