I have recently returned home from a great holiday abroad. It was the first time I'd flown for a good number of years.

During the return journey of 4 hours, with very little to do to pass the time, I couldn't help but notice the conduct of one of the Air Hostesses.

She was attentive to peoples needs, had the obligitory smile and carried out her duties without a problem.

However, when not actively carrying out her duties her conduct did surprise me. - During the flight I noticed her doing her makeup, adjusting her clothing and sorting through her handbag. Whilst giving out meals she was constantly chatting with the other hostess, (social chit-chat). Finally, on several occasions she was pre-occupied with fitting things into the over-head luggage storage compartments and whilst doing so threw bags to the floor and slammed shut the doors. - All of this was not exactly what I had expected from an Air Hostess.

I found myself thinking about how people view me, as a Midwife, when I am caring for them. Especially when I am caring for a woman in labour. We can be in the same room as that woman for a good length of time.

Women in established labour are obviously going to be focussing on themselves, so I doubt if they are aware of the midwife's every move. But what of the women who have an epidural? Or the partners who are just sitting there, watching the clock tick? I have no doubt that they are watching the midwife and her actions, the whole time.....!

Is my conduct professional, at all times? Even when I'm not actively involved in the care of a woman...?

- I hope I can answer "yes" to this. But, it makes you think, doesn't it....?!

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