After reading alot about this, I do try to do just that!

your OP is brilliant, as we should all be thinking about these things as it is easy to get complacent I am sure

One such thing was last week, following a birth my mentor left the room, whilst I was trying to get a stubborn placenta to come. I t felt tight in theri IYKWIM so in the end left it be and tidied up the room quietly giving the new family time to have a cuddle and enjoy the moment where I so often feel they should be alone. They were interrupted however, by the hollaring up the corridor 'erm....we still have placenta in here!'

oh well, it's usually me who screws things up so! thankfully, the placenta was delivered with maternal effort, so brill! (I hate CCT)

Iwill keep this in mind, Shoshana and hope I am always kind and courteous

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