The thing is though many midwives have to mentor as they are short-staffed, but it is in fact part of their duty to mentor and be able to mentor well, sadly at times they are not. But I guess they are only human.

Yes you do get used to it, it doesn't make it right and it is not easy, but you need a thick skin in midwifery, and gain an ability to step out of your comfort zone and to not take anything personally. Criticism is seen as neccessary for personal and professional development.

Please don't let it put you off, there are many times your mentor will make your day, mine has been brilliant. And I also think as you start to fit in and get to know eachother it becomes much easier, it takes alot of effort to get to that stage though and using all of the aforementioned skills!

go for it and don't let anyone put you off!

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