Appletree, you shouldn't feel guilty about your decision in your pregnancy. You did what was the best thing for you and your family. No one else could ever make that desicion for you or know how you felt doing it.


I had a high risk result for downs with the triple test but declined and amniocentisis (sp). We had been told I was infertile before I fell pregnant and I just couldn't risk losing the baby no matter what. I knew if he did have downs we would have enough support from each other and family to cope, and our daughter was also 8 so we felt it would be easier as she wasn't a demanding toddler.

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If babies needed hands to guide them out,
wouldn't women be born with an extra pair
attached to their inner thighs?