i think this is a good pont but i also dont think i would be very happy stitching up someone else after what i have had...i still dont have the abilaty to err "how do you say?" perform in the bedroom? and it has been a while now, me son is nearly 2....so knowing the consiquesnces if it dose go wrong and i could be at fualt for ruaning someone elses sex life....dont know if i wanna do that....or im just over thinking about it and what has happened to both me and sooz is just like being in the minnoraty of cases?