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Old 17-Sep-2008, 18:41
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So my mother in law knows I want to be a mw. I mentioned before that I come on here, also mentioned the bursary.

Before I have even applied, she mentions today that her daughter (a LD Nurse) said that her bursary was 3.5k, and if you drop out you have to pay it back - the full amount not instalments!!

I think she is expecting that I will drop out, otherwise why mention it!!
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 18:53
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Allow it to wash over you like water off a duck's back xxxxxx
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 18:56
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Talking out her bum too! I've never heard anything about having to pay it back! None of the 'senior' ladies in my family have ever been very support of the idea of me being a midwife either - nowt as queer as folk ay?!
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 19:26
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ive never heard of anyone having to pay it back, you ring the bursary up and they stop payments.

i cant understand why some people cannot support you in your decision, i would prove them all wrong hun x

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Old 17-Sep-2008, 19:37
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Hey its what her daughter said so it MUST be true (is there a smirk smiley per chance) honestly!! I got told when I was younger I didnt have the brains to be a nurse! just would like a nice supportive family!
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 19:39
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Know the feeling x
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 20:00
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Wannabe - it's so sad when ppl feel the need to 'belittle' you - all I can say is prove her wrong - success will be the best revenge
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 20:06
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I would say take not one bit of notice, in life there are always people who say things that pee you off, but she has no idea of your true feelings and aspirations, take no notice chick.....Just take it on the chin. xxx
mother in laws how'd av em lolololol xx
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Old 17-Sep-2008, 20:08
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pffffft ignore her, sounds like shes not very supportive, and you don't need people acting like that before you've even started! chin up
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Whatever.............!!!! x
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